(Closed) Really Having a Tough Time Missing Him

posted 7 years ago in Military
Post # 3
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2496 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

I’m so sorry…. πŸ™

Are you able to call/skype/email him?  Could you plan a surprise trip/date for him when he comes home?  Having something to anticipate could help distract you for the next few weeks! 

Maybe take a random, spontaneous trip with a friend?  Or splurge on boudoir photos as a surprise??  Do something just for you!!  When I get upset or down, I usually cry it out in the shower… it helps… πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I am sorry that you are going through this.

Maybe you can write a diary and give it to him when he gets back. Make little notes… write little love letters. It might be a good way for you to get a few things off your chest and also it will be nice for him to see that you were thinking of him often.

Post # 7
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10 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I’m sorry you and your fiance have to be separated.  Try and focus on how you two can enjoy your time together rather than thinking of the time that will be spent apart.  Spend these 3 weeks planning all the fun things you get to do together instead.   I’m sure that will shift your focus to more positive things.

I pray for your comfort and strength in these challenging times and his safe and quick return to you and I thank you both for the sacrifice you make in the effort to seek peace. 

Post # 9
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2907 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Hugs hugs hugs.

 

Sometimes it just hurts sooo bad and there’s not  a whole lot you can do.

Sometimes distraction works, sometimes knowing you have someone worth hurting over works, and sometimes you just get to be sad.  Hugs!

Post # 13
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2392 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

@Oneeleven: I know how hard it is and I wanted to say I’m sorry.  I’ve been in your situation, so feel free to PM me if you ever need to talk/vent/chat πŸ™‚

Post # 15
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2392 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

@Oneeleven:  Anytime!  I remember how special those visits were!  Airport reunions are always the best and sooooo romantic πŸ™‚

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