(Closed) Really?! Not sure how to/if to respond….

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You shouldn’t respond. However, I would probably say something snarky and get myself in trouble. 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Just ignore it. It’s hard to believe that some people just have no filter, but it’s best just not to deal with her.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

either don’t respond or say something like, “I’m sorry, but due to venue constraints…”

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@auggiefrog:  I agree with this! Especially if you know the girl is snarky. My guess is that she’s trying to get a rise out of you.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would just ignore the text. It’s tempting to say something back, but I think it’s better to just turn the other cheek here. If you say anything back it might open things up for her to keep bothering you too. 

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ignore her. I think she is being sarcastic anyhow.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I would say that you probably SHOULD ignore it. That would probably irritate her more than a NO. But I would probably end up saying something snarky 😛

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Delete the text! Don’t respond!!!!!  FIGHT THE URGE!!!!!

 

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

SO tempting to give a bitchy response, but yeah… either no response or a simple, no, sorry, we’re keeping it small, if you feel you should respond.  but that could lead to more conversation, so probably better to just let it go.

 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I would ignore her.  Either she has no tact or she’s looking for drama or both.

Post # 16
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Helper bee

I would ignore the text, it’s obvious she’s baiting you to get a reaction. And for the record, I think your Fiance is definitely not ugly! Obviously she has major issues. Delete the text and don’t even give it another thought.

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