(Closed) Really? Now you’re finally going to send the RSVP back? UGH!

posted 7 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I feel your pain.  I was reworking tables up until the last minute.  It drove me insane.  Hang in there, at least he RSVP’d now and not any later!!!  Sheesh!

Post # 4
1136 posts
Bumble bee

that is really annoying

Post # 5
3344 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

We got an RSVP back last month.  Our wedding was last year in August.

Post # 6
5984 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

UGGGGHHH! so annoying. some people seriously just dont think and they clearly have never had a wedding! so sorry! breath! LOL i had a similar thing happen…I kept asking her if she was coming and she kept saying that she was def coming but not her Darling Husband or kids. well guess who showed? The whole family showed (5 people…3 kids!) and I had a small 60 ppl wedding!!! I freaked but it worked out just fine…

congrats…its almost your wedding day!


Post # 7
102 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

stick him at a table with no one else and no decorations, lol.  Maybe he’ll get the passive agressive message.

Post # 9
591 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@JoJo Bananas: LOL Seriously?? what are people thinking?


@thewheelsonthebus: Super annoying! I am not looking forward to this part. We have about half our RSVPs back and 2 weeks and 3 days to go before our deadline. I’m praying to the RSVP gods everyday I check my mail that we have a lot of them in there. Ha ha!

Post # 12
834 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@JoJo Bananas: Pffffffffffftttttttttttttt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Seriously????? O_O

Post # 13
91 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I know how you feel – 8 days out from the wedding and someone just cancelled which seriously messes up our seating chart and then someone else asked if they could bring a friend. I can’t handle this!!!!

Post # 14
32 posts

People who haven’t been through a wedding or did it a long time ago or didn’t have the type of wedding that requires seating arrangements, pre-event person count, etc. don’t know how to be a good guest.

I heard one girl b*tching to someone about how yeah she’s only been dating her boyfriend for 2 weeks but how come she can’t bring him along and so and so can bring her fiance? Uh, because the engaged people don’t want to take your 2 week boyfriend out for an expensive meal because they don’t know him and he may not be around for long. Seriously, people think that it’s their God given right to get their way at other people’s weddings (RSVP late, say they’re not coming a day or two before–or on the day of–, bring people they didn’t RSVP for, not bring people they DID RSVP for, etc.) It’s supposed to be about the couple and all they ever think about is their guests. Have they never socialized with people they don’t know?

You didn’t have to accomodate this guy and his family, it was REALLY nice of you to do so. I hope they do show up and contribute some joy to your wedding.

Post # 15
3601 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Seriously stoked that we did free seating after reading this thread!

Post # 16
921 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Yeah, I got an RSVP this morning.. the wedding is in two days. I don’t understand people.

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