(Closed) Really? Ok! Nevamind! WARNING:VENTING INSIDE

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
7291 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

She is probably just under a lot of pressure and stress right now. I would just giver her some time, unless you are completely turned off! Luckily you have some time until your wedding !

Post # 4
4755 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I don’t get it.

Did you schedual an official appointment?

Post # 5
334 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I would strongly consider looking for a backup option.  And I’d stop communicating with her via text message.  It sounds like she doesn’t take this role professionally and doesn’t have a good idea of how to respond to a ‘client’.  Are you paying her for the service?  Did you draft up any sort of contract?  She may not consider this a ‘real’ gig until she has cash and contract in hand.

It also sounds like she’s trying to back out (“if you wanna go with somone else then fine i understand!”).  Maybe she has overbooked herself and just realized it.

I’d suggest talking to her face to face, and be prepared to look for another singer.

Post # 6
427 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

For the first singer it all depends on how long you gave her to learn the song. I don’t think she was blowing you off she might just have had alot on her plate. If you really liked her I would definitely give her another shot. The second woman was a little rude. I wouldn’t hire someone if they won’t sing infront of me first.

Post # 7
2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Eva Peron:

Agreed. That sounds just like a very stressed out response. If you were impressed with her…give her another chance…..but yes, you have a right to be peeved!

Post # 8
1489 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012


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