(Closed) Really overwhelmed right now

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
9884 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

(((HUGS)))  Sounds like you need some stress relief – maybe you should plan a girl’s night out with a moratorium on any wedding talk to give yourself a break!

Post # 4
728 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

hug 🙁 

my situation is similar but different. I am so worried about our parents meeting as his dad holds grudges against everything, and my parents didn’t accept Fiance at the begining because of his skin color – BUT that was long ago and everyone has forgiven and forgotten so I’m hoping he has too! he also have issues with his own family and asked why we are even inviting them (uggs)

However someone on this board told me that I can’t control what happens. so that is how I’m trying to think about it, my parents know about his dad, so whatever happens, happens. I’ve decided our moms will meet at the shower and our dads will meet at the rehearsal dinner.

My Fiance and I moved 8 months ago for him to pursue more schooling – I left a great job and have since found nothing. getting some EI but not close to what i was making and I feel so bad that we have to rely on his loans right now (I feel like he thinks I should of found a job – which I express- and he says he knows I’m doing all I can do and that there are not many jobs here). It is definitely super hard to stay positive about it!  I am actually waiting to hear back about a job right now *fingers crossed*

Good luck with everything! No answers from me but I wanted to let you know you’re not alone! 

Post # 5
6247 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900


I’m sending some positive thoughts your way.

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