(Closed) Really really angry at Fiance – long-

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 47
Member
261 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I understand what everyone is saying, and if this doesn’t work for you, than you need to leave because it may not change. It could just be who he is. 

When I got serious with my (then boyfriend), we decided that I would move in, so I didn’t have to pay rent in my other place and quit my job and just focus on school. I clean, cook, make appointments, basically take care of everything other than actually going to a job and working. He makes more than enough and me having a job would actually be worse and the extra income wouldn’t help at all. There would just be 2 people who are stressed about their job and coming home and cleaning and cooking rather than one person who is stressed, and the other helping them relax in a clean house with dinner ready. 

So technically, he’s paid for everything over the past 3 years, including the wedding. But it’s just how our relationship works, and it works for us. 

Post # 48
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5879 posts
Bee Keeper

Good riddance he was a major moucher. You totally deserve much better than that mess.

 

Post # 50
Member
325 posts
Helper bee

@ABeeC123:  so glad to hear that you have supportive family and friends by your side. I know it’s hard but it sounds like this break up was for the best. Hope you’re able to see that you deserve a lot more than that, and best wishes to you in moving forward!!

Post # 51
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764 posts
Busy bee

@ABeeC123:  Thank you for updating! This must be so difficult for you but it sounds like you were making smart, clear headed decisions the entire way through!

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