(Closed) Really? You want to talk babies?

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

This is one of my biggest pet peeves! Why do they think it’s okay to talk about kids before marriage? My guy does this too and it makes me crazy lol

Post # 4
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Worker bee

Ugggh why do men think that they can just skip logical steps? My SO took 8 1/2 months to even say “I love you.” Yet before he said it, we were already talking about moving from Wash. D.C. to St. Louis together after I graduate in August, moving in together, AND he joked all the time about how his mom wants us to have babies (and he still does this, by the way). He even dropped a couple of very vague hints about marriage before he would even say the L word. It drove me NUTS!

We talked about it and he told me that he believes that saying those words are equal to marriage in that you have to absolutely know that it’s true BEFORE you say it. I get that. I respect that. I am glad that I kept my mouth shut and waited until he was ready, even though I knew that I loved him two months before hand. But still, I felt really weird planning to move halfway across the country and move in with someone when I knew that the reason he wouldn’t say he lovedme was because he wasn’t sure about his feelings yet.

We haven’t really talked about marriage seriously yet, but he stills jokes about kids (blaming his mom most of the time, but I can see through him Tongue Out) and buying a house, and still drops vague hints about marriage! I don’t understand why men think it’s okay, like we’re just supposed to read their minds and assume that what we WANT them to be thinking actually IS what they are thinking. And they accuse US of playing mind games. Don’t they know that this behavior is exactly what makes us crazy?

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