(Closed) Reasonable Gift for DW?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
6798 posts
Busy Beekeeper

yes, and it really didn’t sound like they deserved anything more.  Wish them happy and move on.

Post # 3
1206 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

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bridesmaidwithquestions:  I don’t understand why this is even a question.  If the bride was as awful as you have said she was why would you want to even keep her as a friend much less give her a gift after spending $3K to be in her wedding.  Do whatever you’re comfortable with.

Post # 4
4940 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would give a card and that is all considering the amount of money you spent and her rudeness to you all thus far.

Post # 5
6939 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

I think it’s totally acceptable to give them just a card! Though, with all I’ve read about this wedding, I think the bride would be lucky to get even THAT from you!

FWIW, I’m having a Destination Wedding and I do not expect any gifts from anyone that is coming. If it were me I’d really appreciate a nice card! 

Post # 7
903 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

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bridesmaidwithquestions:  I am having a Destination Wedding though, through the Bee, I have learned that I might be one of the most laid back brides on the planet.  We know what people spent to come there and we know what our bridal party spent to be part of our big day.  Send a card if you just want to send a card or get a small, inexpensive, personalized gift (wedding ornament, embroidered towels, coffee mug, whatever).  As a Destination Wedding couple we aren’t expecting any gifts so anything we get will be a surprise 🙂

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