(Closed) Reasons for waiting

posted 5 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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2622 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I think many people have worries, but everyone’s worries are going to be different.

In part, just thinking about it means your aware of a problem or tendency and you can work on it to become the person/mom you want to be.  Just wondering/worrying about it means you care enough to think ahead.

Some worries are unfounded and some worries its good to know ahead because it can direct you to act in the correct way.

So if your worry is anger issues, have you considered some anger management classes/therapy or at the minimum just starting with a self-help book targeted for your worries?  

Preparing yourself and having the tools ready for a kid can help you a lot. And because your worried already, this means that your motivation to handle a child confidently and appropriately is already there. 

 

Post # 4
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112 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I get worried too. Mostly I’m worried because I don’t like children, they make me uncomfortable and annoyed. Everyone says it’s different when it’s your own, but I worry it won’t be!

Thanks for being brave enough to air your worries, I hope more bees will come forward with theirs too, so we know we’re not alone with this stuff!

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