(Closed) Reasons Why You Cannot Be a Bridesmaid

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1748 posts
Bumble bee

@inky_1:  Wow. I’m glad I’m not her friend because I may have cursed her the fuck out. I’ve never cursed anyone out before but I may have made that exception for her rude ass. Why do people think it’s okay to mistreat others? Stuff like that boils my blood.

Post # 4
183 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

This woman is seriously deluded. Was this a joke? Did she even HAVE bridesmaids after this email?


And her grammar is atrocious 🙁

Post # 5
30 posts
  • Wedding: April 2013

Wow I wish someone would send me such ………………….. i actually wouldnt respond or be on her train even if I could afford it

Post # 6
2780 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Hilarious! I can kind of understand where the bride is coming from, I just think she worded things very poorly.

She was basically just asking her girls to tell her now if they can’t take on the role of bridesmaid, whether it’s due to finances or that the dates of the wedding related events just don’t work for them, I can understand that. 

Post # 7
5474 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Surprised wowwwww….


ETA- I would have replied with:

If you don’t know that YOU + ARE = YOU’RE then I can’t be around you as it might cause my IQ to drop 🙁  Sorry, not meaning to offend… kisses!

Post # 8
9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

I feel like this is everything we all WANT to say but never would…!

Post # 10
277 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Giggles…Can someone say Bridezilla!

Post # 12
1030 posts
Bumble bee

Jesus, and here I am trying to make sure my BM’s do nothing that would stress them out!

Post # 13
6239 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

I am ashamed to be her date twin…

Post # 14
5951 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

Odds are good that the bride to be of this “epic” event is actually trolling around on this site as well as others touting the utter fabulousness of her wedding, but completely neglects to mention how much she actually loves the ill fated Jake, who will, in less than a years time, hate the day he ever thought to propose to her with the fury of a thousand suns….I’m sending out my gifts now, just to get a good spot in line, since I don’t want to miss any parties, because that would be bad, and I’ve given her advanced notice that I will also be attending their “epic” divorce hearing as well!

Post # 15
5951 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

….she’s getting married in Vail right?  Good luck getting people in Colorado to jump through hoops, it’s Vail…not Aspen

Post # 16
684 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

There are much nicer ways to convey the same message…

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