(Closed) reassurance for doing the right thing?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Did I do the right thing ?

    Yes

    No

  • Post # 2
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    You did the right thing and deep down you already know it.

    Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    Oh girl…DEFINITELY, hands down, 1000000% the right choice!!!

    Post # 4
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2016

    ((HUGS)) ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    Post # 5
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    You completely dodged a bullet leaving that one.  Leave him to his many other girls, and find a man who has eyes only for you.  

    Post # 6
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    Busy bee

    I’m going through a breakup now and it can be very tough. I’ve questioned myself a lot and do miss him at times. He lied a lot and did a lot of other cruddy things and I held on for the longest thinking things would change. Since the breakup I’ve been tempted to take him back several times. I’ve considered calling and just showing up at his apartment several times. Thankfully each of those times I’ve reminded myself of everything that happened and of all the lies. I know and I think you know that you’ve done the right thing. I will also add that in no time at all he started seeing another girl. 

    Post # 7
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2016

    You truly dodged a bullet. It’s tough after a break up – no matter who did the breaking up or how crappy the person really was – it’s always hard. Being alone kind of sucks .. At first. That’s the best part in my opinion, when you start to realize that being alone ISNT so bad, you start to really find yourself and grow as a person. I can honestly say break ups have brought out some real strength in me. They hurt, you eat ice cream, all of it is sad and full of sighs, until one day it isn’t anymore. And yes, you could meet a guy thats better than this one easily I’m sure. He sounds like a nightmare and you deserve to be proud of yourself for running the hell out of that burning house. Good luck honey! It’ll be okay. Your real other half is somewhere out there right now, maybe getting out of his own terrible situation and growing into the person you’ll meet one day 😊

    Post # 8
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    Honey bee

    You absolutely did the right thing. Give yourself a high five for extracting yourself.

    Don’t beat yourself up for being “hung up” or for having a moment of weakness and asking him back.  Whether the relationship was good for you or not, you are still grieving and you have every right and need to grieve. Please be kind to yourself.

    Men prey on women that they believe they can manipulate. When you are ready, please get some counseling to make sure your next relationship is a healthy one for you.  

    Post # 9
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    Bee Keeper

    I recommend you read ‘women who love too much’. It’s an oldie but a goodie. I think you’ll get a lot out of it. 

    Post # 10
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    You know you did the right thing, and thank god you found the strength to do so. A lot of women don’t. You never want to accept that kind of behavior from a man. Speaking to a counselor might help to clarify things and make sure that you don’t wind up with the same type of guy on the next go-round. Good luck! 

    Post # 12
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    Sugar bee

    You dodged a bullet (like semi automatic level kind of bullet).

    Of course you miss him.This is noral no matter if the relationship was good or bad.You miss the good parts and what could have bitten but he is clearly the wrong choice.Over time you will get over it completely.

    Post # 13
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    Sugar bee

    These darn typos.

    Noral should be normal.

    Bitten should be ‘been’

    Post # 14
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    Honey bee

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    movielife2016:  you need to learn to trust yourself first; once you rebuild your self esteem, you will be a lot better judge of people and won’t tolerate BS behavior. Please find a good counselor. If it isn’t a good fit, find a different one. 

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