(Closed) Received STD, Attended Shower, Sent Gift, but no Inivitation

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Bee
1433 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Historic Lougheed House

Can you get your Mom to contact the groom or the mother of the groom? 

It seems like you are invited, and there must be a mix-up.  

Post # 4
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2697 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

There is still a chance that it could be a mix up. I got an invite for a wedding 4 weeks out simply because the bride took forever with her invitations. Did the rest of the family get their invites?

Perhaps inviting extended family members has been an argument back and forth between the bride/groom and parents. Perhaps the bride as won this round, but even so, its terribly rude of her not to invite someone who has already been generous with gifts!

If people ask why you aren’t attending, just say “I wasn’t invited.” Simple as that. No need to protect anyone with such poor manners.

Post # 6
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915 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@girlfriday19:  How recently did she say this?

Post # 7
Bee
1433 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Historic Lougheed House

@girlfriday19:  hmmm yes, I was going to say that it sounds like the bride’s family is hosting and she doesn’t have control over it. 

This is an awkward situation!  If you got her a shower gift and all the stuff she did (sent you an STD etc) – its really rude of her to peace out like that. 

You said she was cold to you – is there a bit of a rocky history?  Are you two okay with eachother?

Post # 9
Bee
1433 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012 - Historic Lougheed House

@girlfriday19:  You already got them a wedding gift?  Did you send it to them / purchase it through the registry?  If so, you can’t really take it back…. 

Post # 12
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6124 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Yes an upate!!!

Post # 13
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1342 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Commenting to follow!

Post # 14
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241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

what happened?

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

YEah I wanna know

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