- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2010
We have a couple of local friends that we recently realized we can invite to the wedding because of verbal declines from family who have let us know they have a conflict (e.g., we can start adding people from our B list). My Bridesmaid or Best Man are throwing a shower and wanted to know whether some of these people are invited and whether to add them to the guest list (they know we are friends with these people). These people did not get a STD while other local people did. Do they just not get invited to the shower? Do I try to quickly send them a save the date before the shower invite goes out? Do I just skip the whole STD thing for them and just figure they get invitations when the time rolls around for that (which is like 3 weeks for me)? Do I invite them to the shower and just give them a wedding invitation?