(Closed) Reception music dilemma

posted 7 years ago in Music
Post # 4
1473 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Just tell them how you feel. Being honest with them is the best way and it is YOUR wedding. What does you Fiance think? Maybe you 2 could have a small talk with them and just tell them you really appreciate the offer, but you would rather just use your ipod. If they persist, just keep saying that it is your wedding and that you want the music from your ipod.

Post # 5
277 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

It is your day and you should do what you want. I think their request is unreasonable. Typically, the parents of the groom don’t have much say in the planning except who they want to invite and of course the dress rehearsal. If they really like him that much have them pay for him to play during the dress rehearsal dinner (unless of course it is at place that doesn’t allow it). I would say something like this : “I’ve already made arrangements for us to play my favorite songs since they are not getting to be played. However, if you would like him to play during the cocktail hour that is fine.”

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