Post # 17

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Worker bee
Sorry but I hate either shoe, and would be very disappointed to recieve them as a gift, or even just to be expected to wear them. I’d be upset the bride had wasted her money.
Maybe just a black ballet pump like another poster suggested?
Post # 18

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Blushing bee
I’m going to be getting TOMS white sparkle for my wedding dress shoe. I have a bad ankles and my fiance and I are about the same height so I wan’t something comfy. I picked TOMS for your comfy shoe!
Post # 19

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Honey bee
Post # 20

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Busy bee
I’m a big fan of TOMS, but I’d make sure your girls are into them before you buy them! Also, of the two, I would pick TOMS over Sperrys because Sperrys take so long to break in!
Post # 21

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Newbee
Thanks guys – today I actually found some cute Simply Vera Wang flats at Kohls so I think I might go with them as they’re only about $20 so then I could afford another gift for the girls within my same budget 🙂
Post # 22

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Helper bee
I don’t care for either. And honestly, every time I get a “gift” that is something to be worn for the wedding (ie. clutch, shoes, jewelry) I do not think that counts as a gift. You should shop for each of the girls as if it is their birthday. Find them each something unique that fits them and it will be much more appreciated! Just think, your BM’s are putting out hundreds of dollars to be in your wedding. The least you can do is spend some time on picking thoughtful thank you gifts for them.
Post # 23

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Busy bee
Wow, this is a tough crowd!! She said it’s not the only gift, just something she wants to give them based on her own experience incase they want to be comfy. And of course you know your bridesmaids & know what they’d appreciate. I think that’s a cute idea! I’m glad you found something less expensive too ;).
Post # 24

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Helper bee
not a big fan of either but i voted Toms. i dont mind shoes as a gift.