(Closed) Reconsidering the guest list

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 16
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2564 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Why did you even invite them in the first place?  You seem to not even like them very much.  What’s done is done, you sent a save the date and now you need to send an invitation.  Sounds like they will probably decline anyway.

Post # 17
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7004 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

lana1709:  I’m sorry, but if one of my high school friends fractured their toe and posted it on Facebook, I’m not going to ask if they are okay… because it’s likely they are since it is not a life-threatening injury. It would be 100% different if I saw said person every day.

Also, remember, no one cares about your wedding as much as you. People won’t ask how it’s going because they have other concerns in their life. It’s similar to texting you asking how your healed toe is treating you or if your job is going well. You can’t take these things personally. 

But now to answer your question… you HAVE to invite people you sent save the dates to. And since you invited under your capacity,  you can invite your new friends too. Not everyone will RSVP “yes” to your wedding.  Your predicament is a non-issue. You’re safe.

Post # 18
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731 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

aroger:  Hmm I have never heard that! I will have to do some research– there were only a couple but they were some of my fiance’s closest friends from highschool so maybe they don’t consider us friends any more :/ lol 

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