Post # 1
I don’t put a lot of stock into dreams but for the 6th time I’ve dreamt that I cheated on my husband. Sometimes I can’t tell who it is but when I can, it’s always the same guy. Sometimes in the dream I feel bad, sometimes I don’t care, and sometimes it’s not a factor that I’m married. Last night, I woke up in a panic and SO SO happy that it was just a dream.
Any theories out there about what this could mean?
Post # 3
I’m no expert on dreams so I won’t venture a guess, but I’ve been having recurring dreams about Darling Husband leaving me. I’m pretty darn happy to wake up from those dreams!
Post # 4
from Dream Moods
To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, fiance, or significant other suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, cheating dreams reflect the intensity of your sexual passion; you are exploring areas of your sexuality. In this scenario, the dream may actually serve as a reaffirmation of your commitment. Furthermore, if you are approaching your own wedding date, then it is not uncommon to have dreams about erotic experiences with partners other than your intended spouse. Most likely, such a dream represents the newness of your sexual passion. It may also signify anxieties of changing your identity – that of a spouse.
Post # 5
@GroovyHippieChick: I love Dream Moods! I check it out all the time.
Post # 6
To dream that you are abandoned suggests that it is time to leave behind past feelings and characteristics that are hindering your growth. Let go of your old attitudes. A more direct and literal interpretation of this dream indicates you have a fear of being deserted, abandoned, or even betrayed. It may stem from a recent loss or a fear of losing a loved one. The fear of abandonment may manifest itself into your dream as part of the healing process and dealing with losing a loved one. It may also stem from unresolved feelings or problems from childhood. Alternatively, the dream indicates that you are feeling neglected or that your feelings are being overlooked. Perhaps the dream is a metaphor that you need to approach life with “reckless abandon” and live more freely.
To abandon others in your dream suggests that you are overwhelmed by the problems and decisions in your life.
Post # 7
I wouldn’t worry too much about it, really. We require so much of ourselves in this waking world, everything we do and say has to be just so… and while most of the time it’s what we want to do…I still think it weighs on our psyche from time to time…Your dreams are your playland…and they don’t really mean anything in a literal sense, so taking things at face value just doesn’t work because that’s not how our unconscious processes information and feelings…treat it like a foreign movie, enjoy it, eat your popcorn and leave the theater confused like the rest of us do….it will never add up to a rational minded person anyway.