(Closed) Recurring argument- Who’s car to take?

posted 8 months ago in Relationships
Post # 106
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228 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

with your updates, I am changing my thoughts about your situation. I thought your boyfriend was requesting to use your car a lot more than just 2 times for his errands. You updated that you guys use his car just as much for your joint trips.  It sounds like you need to have a conversation about how stressful the finances are for you at this time. If he is a thoughtful and generous partner, he will want to help you relieve the burden somewhat and be more considerate of your situation.

Post # 107
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1021 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

We always take my husbands car. Don’t know why but we do, even if I’m driving.i do have to say though, I find it to be compete bullshit that he “only gives you what you use”. What the fuck is that?! He’s cheap as hell. If I fought with him about anything it would be that. He knows your financial situation and he’s making good money. That’s not a good guality he has there, bee

Post # 108
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2485 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Bee I think you’ve received the advice you needed for this thread. Have a convo and let your boyfriend know how you’re feeling and see if he’s in it for the long haul with you. If he is then he will be willing to sacrifice now and help you finish school and wait for you to help contribute more when you’re able to. People are going to keep bashing you and him both if you don’t close the thread.  You can scroll to the bottom of your thread and hit “close thread,” and it won’t be open to new replies. Just a suggestion.

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