(Closed) Red Alert!!!! Baaaaaaaaad waiting day!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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8453 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@soontobesmith87:  Sometimes you just have to vent, cry, scream and then move on with the rest of your day.  I can understand your frustration with the ex getting engaged, but that’s like saying a bank robber can get money.  I mean sure, she can get engaged, but not really under voluntary circumstances.  I have a feeling your Boyfriend or Best Friend is going to propose to you because he wants to, and that’s something she’ll never have.

Post # 4
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4950 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m not sure why you’re bothering thinking about her at all. Does she have any part of your life? I mean, if she’s as awful as you say,… why bother comparing yourself to her? You’re on your own path, and yours has nothing to do with hers. I would reccomend unconcerning yourself with her life and her relationship, and focus on enjoying your own. That said,  I totally understand how frustrating it is seeing people getting engaged when you’re waiting. I waited for a very long time. But really, you don’t want your engagement to go down like hers anyway. It’s apples to oranges really. 

Post # 7
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5958 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

I’m sorry…that’s sucky…and I get why you would be having a hard day….I don’t really have any advice…but at least you aren’t this lady…..

Post # 8
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4950 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@soontobesmith87:  Ohhh dang.Sorry, I didn’t realize you had kids involved. It’s very frustrating, but honesty, you’re not doing yourself any favors focusing on how awful she is, how much better your relationship is etc. We all have days like that, and I hope this one passes for you soon. 

Maybe take some time out today, just relax or do something fun. Hopefully the frustration passes soon. 

Post # 9
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2497 posts
Buzzing bee

@soontobesmith87:  Why are you comparing yourself to a woman with one failed marriage and a trainwreck of an engagement? Try to keep in mind that he was younger and less mature when he committed to her. You can take solace in the fact that his relationship with her was obviously not perfect (it ended!) and yours is much healthier and happier. The fact that you are not engaged yet does not mean that there is something wrong with you. On the flip side, it means your SO will be absolutely ready when he does propose!

Post # 10
Member
1583 posts
Bumble bee

@soontobesmith87:  They say bitches get married because they demand what they want. Clearly she does!

In any case you know your proposal is coming so try not to be jealous.

Post # 11
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1762 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@Nona99:  +1 i agree LOL the pic you post is hilarious hahaha

Post # 12
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5958 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@Serey:  The picture is pretty good…I can tell you that witnessing it in person was TERRIFYING!  Like a boat straining at it’s moorings, you could hear that corset creaking and moaning under those mighty buoys’ impressive girth….Mr. 99 and I were just waiting for it all to give way…but it didn’t…so I asked her where she got it…cause hey, she was puttin a hurtin on that thing…so it’s well built!

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