(Closed) Red flags?

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
2220 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

Zenostar:  Yeah, that’s creepy. I probably wouldn’t let him back into my house. Is anyone there with you when he comes over? If not, I wouldn’t even continue to cut this guy’s hair. It’s your home and your place of business; no one should make you feel uncomfortable there.

Post # 3
2490 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Definitely creepy! I would just not have him book another appointment with you.

Post # 5
963 posts
Busy bee

Don’t cut his hair anymore. I would make sure to never be alone with the guy. I would tell someone about this so that you can count on them if you need help. If he ever shows up at your house uninvited, call someone in case the guy doesn’t leave.

Post # 6
215 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2005

Zenostar:  It’s creepy for sure.

Lots of red flags. Especially the nude comments and wanting to talk about about erotica. The constant calling it’s pretty unsettling too. It sounds little obsessive. I’ve had the same hairdresser for 6 years and see her every 3 months and we talk about three things: reality TV shows, our small dogs, and her adorable son, that’s it, so I think it’s totally innaproriate. 

Honestly, you should stop taking his calls and let him find a new hairdresser. You’re clearly uncomftorable and it’s always better to be safe than sorry. 

Post # 8
7647 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Creepy. I would want to ignore his calls, but they are getting borderline obsessive…I am not sure if that would teeter on the edge of harrassment becuase of what he said to you. I am just unsure whether it would be to your benefit to answer and tell him that you either aren’t interested in cutting his hair anymore or what. I am torn on this one. Almost seems like harrassment to me though.

Post # 9
2957 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

I wouldn’t answer his calls anymore. No more appointments, no more alone time in your house with him. Bizarre. 

Post # 11
415 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Zenostar:  EW creepy!  I would listen to PPs and not cut this weirdo’s hair anymore. I propbably wouldnt answer either. I would just be afraid of him showing up unannounced. Do you have a neighbor or someone that could be there in a hurry in case he pulled something like that?

Post # 12
6018 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017


Zenostar:  most defintely no more hair cuts for this dirty birdie. That’s creepy for sure. I think you should answer the phone though and just say you aren’t taking any appointments at this time due to personal reasons. You don’t have to explain. Just inform him that you aren’t accepting any appointments. Unless he will somehow find out that you are still taking appointments. But even then you owe him no other explanations other than you aren’t going to give him an appointment. I kind of feel like if you don’t say anything at all he will just keep calling.

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