(Closed) Refraining from having sex until the wedding day?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper

No, I have never understood this concept and struggle to see the point.  To each their own!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

we abstained for the entire 11 month engagement!!! So totally worth it! We were in pre-marital mentoring at the smae time and it was great. We got to know each other outside of physical things. We had sex on our wedding night and haven’t stopped since. Maybe a day or two at that! 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

We waited until we were married. We actually stopped a little before we got engaged. So it was over a year! HONEYYYYYYYYYYYYYY we can’t stop now!! πŸ™‚ lol

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

We refrained the month prior. We only had sex about once a month prior anyway so it wasn’t a huge deal- it’s just one of those things where you want it bad because you can’t. It was totally worth it & our wedding night was amazing!

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper

There is absolutely NO way I could physically do it lol

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@mrs.folks:  I have thought a lot about this actually. Haven’t really thought about when I would abstain or for how long, but it’s an interesting concept πŸ™‚

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

For us it was more so a religious thing. We are both Christian and we knew that it was just not right. We wanted to be blessed and wanted God to bless our relationship.

It was HARDDDDDDDDDDD, but I’m glad we did!!

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@mrs.folks:  

believe me i had the same feelings!! It was hard and I broke down and cried on the stairs one night LOL very dramatic!! 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@mrs.folks:  WHEEEEEEEEEEEW PRAISE HIM!! πŸ™‚ lol

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@mrs.folks:  Oh and THANK YOU!!!!!!! Only a little more for you too! πŸ™‚

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