- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2013
PacifistK and i have lived together for 3 years and been together for 4. We have everything we need regarding plateware and furniture and cushions and sheets. You know the average wedding registry items.
With nearly a 200 person wedding, we do not need more stuff. In fact, we really want to donate or trash items that are cluttering our apartment.
Regarding gifts. I know, this is a touchy subject. Becaus on one hand I want this beautiful big party where all my friends and family are taken care of and having fun on the dance floor. But at the same time, I am putting x amount of $$ and it will be so nice to get at least half of that back.
Now, what we really need, PacifistK and I, is cash. In the next couple of years we will be putting majority of our time and our money towards my immigration. I know the average person has no clue what dealing with immigration is like, but it’s watching your savings go away to something intangible.
Regardless, would it be rude if I put on our wedding website :
In lieu of traditional wrapped gifts, we would like to receive support that wil go towards our immigration fund.
What are your thoughts and your suggestions?