(Closed) Registry Items: Have you used any before the Wedding?

posted 6 years ago in Gifts and Registries
  • poll: Have you used any Registry Gifts before the Wedding?
    Yes : (21 votes)
    50 %
    No : (21 votes)
    50 %
  • Post # 3
    16213 posts
    Honey Beekeeper

    We didn’t, but that was easy in our case because we didn’t move in together until after the wedding. So it was simple to just keep all of the gifts packed up in their original boxes as we’d be moving them anyway!

    Post # 5
    4439 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

    Yes… why wouldn’t I?

    Post # 6
    2712 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We didn’t and I don’t think you are supposed to.  The gifts are supposed to be something you use together as a married couple.  So if, God forbid, something happens and the wedding doesn’t occur, then you are supposed to return the gifts.

    Post # 7
    715 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    The only gift we’ve used so far is the GPS my mom bought as an engagement gift.  She specifically bought it though so we could have it for a trip that we were planning on taking the weekend after the engagement party.

    All the rest of our engagement, shower and early wedding gifts are sitting in the guest room at FI’s house waiting for me to move in after the wedding.  I do have to admit that we have seriously been considering using the super-snuggly blanket that FI’s mom got me for a shower gift, but so far, we’ve just found other blankets to cuddle on the couch with.


    Post # 8
    860 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    We did, everything we got at the shower we have been using. We didnt have space to hold on to all of the gifts plus our own stuff. So, we empties out the cupboards and went to town on the new things.

    Post # 9
    916 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I didn’t, I was worried it would jinx things

    Post # 10
    3471 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

    Yep– we got 12 place settings and a crockpot before the wedding that we used. 🙂

    Post # 11
    4193 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - Baltimore Museum of Industry

    I got our bathroom scale at the shower, and it was the only gift we used beforehand.

    Darling Husband didn’t move in until after the wedding, due to roommates/leases, so I wanted to wait until we could use things together. Plus, it was really nice being able to finally use things- like Christmas!

    Post # 12
    986 posts
    Busy bee

    We aren’t married yet, but I’ve always wondered about this. Good question, OP. 🙂 

    Post # 13
    701 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2013

     We haven’t, but we also aren’t living together until after the wedding. It makes sense for us to just wait.

    Post # 14
    132 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    Definitely not – even though he has already moved into our ‘to-be’ shared accomodations.  I’m not moving in until we’re married. I wouldn’t be able to let him use my coveted housewares until we start our home together!  I feel like it’s bad luck to use before the wedding anyways for some reason.

    Post # 15
    2363 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    We started using a few gifts right away.  For example, two of my friends teamed up to buy me a Nespresso machine, and they specifically told me they wanted me to use and enjoy it immediately!  We also used some smaller items (like a garlic press) that were replacements or upgrades.

    We waited to use our dinnerware, flatware, major appliances (Kitchen Aid), towels, and the rest.

    Post # 16
    3175 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    No, but only because people mailed them to our home (MT) while I was in OH for my shower. I didn’t get back to MT until after the wedding. Otherwise, we probably would have used a few things, even though I know you’re not “supposed” to. I would want someone to use my gift immediately. 

    The topic ‘Registry Items: Have you used any before the Wedding?’ is closed to new replies.

    Find Amazing Vendors