Rehearsal Dinner Drama

posted 2 years ago in Family
Post # 2
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Bee Keeper

Suggest to your mother that she can pay for the rehearsal dinner at the restaurant if she doesn’t like the current plans. Otherwise she needs to be quiet and stop causing you anxiety so close to your wedding. 

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

is your family very.poor and these fancy clothes and flights put them in debt? Then she can complain. But otherwise, they can all still wear the clothes to dinner. My family is poor and dresses up for Olive Garden, seriously.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

amydee :  You’ve got it – mom needs to suck it up.  Not her money, not her choice.  If you think she’s so rude that she’d bitch and gossip about this, I’d address it with her direclty and try to shut it down.  

I get that last minute changes can be stressful, but it’s 2 weeks notice, not day of.  No pay, no say.  

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

amydee :  either Mom pays up, or she needs to shut that pie hole. 

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Suggest to your mother that she can pay for the rehearsal dinner at the restaurant if she doesn’t like the current plans. Otherwise she needs to be quiet and stop causing you anxiety so close to your wedding. 

This.

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