(Closed) Relashionship dilemma ,Please your Advice !!

posted 7 years ago in Military
Post # 3
2063 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would love to give you advice, especially if you are also a military family. However, a sad face doesn’t allow me to do much on that front.

Post # 5
14 posts
  • Wedding: June 2014

the best advice i can give is do not push the issue….that will only lead to resentment and heartache.

also- if you have any doubts about him remaining faithfull then there is no way you two are ready to get engaged let alone married.

trust and respect is the foundation of any relationship and if that’s not there then there will be nothing for you two to build on.

if i was you- i would give him a kiss and send him back to the states and just see what happens. remember- absence makes the heart grow fonder! 🙂 if it’s meant to be, he’ll come back to you- or once you finish your studies you can go to him.


good luck!

Post # 7
300 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

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@nurse2014:  I am sorry this is bothering you enough to affect your studies! I hope you will work on that to keep your grades up. I’m hoping for the best for your relationship. What part of Germany do you live? My mom spent quite a lot of time in Stuttgart. I always loved visiting and taking day trips to Berlin and Munich.

Post # 8
428 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

It seems like there is a lot of stress and worry around this relationship. You should ask him for deadlines and details, like, “In one more year we will either get engaged or break up.” That way he can’t keep putting you off forever. Also, if you get a bad feeling from him in terms of loyalty or commitment, there is usually a reason and you should trust yourself!

Post # 9
585 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

My advice: you should probably stop typing in all caps, it’s going to get old real fast and it’s considered ‘rude’ .

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