(Closed) Sleeping with another girl – trust issues

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

…shut the door and don’t look back.

Post # 3
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Bumble bee

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sallygg :  It doesn’t sounds like this relationship has the steam to keep going. He lied to you and betrayed your trust. You deserve to have a partner who loves you, is honest, and you can rely on as much as he can rely on you. 

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

You don’t need such complications in your life.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

You’ve broken up twice already, and now he’s stringing you along while sowing his wild oats?

Buh bye.

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Yeah, no. You already know how this will turn out. You have invested 4 years but how much longer do you want to invest with someone who cheated on you?

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

But at the same time Ive been with him a long time and he means alot. 

Post # 8
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Helper bee

He’s a manipulator and a liar full of excuses. Look at his actions, not his words. Don’t take him back. You can’t trust someone like him.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

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sallygg :  It’s incredibly hard to move on when you love someone and want it to work.  However, you will probably never get over him sleeping with someone else during your break.  If the relationship was previously in question enough to break up, this will not make it better.  Try to move on and find someone that is worth your time.  Best of luck!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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scissorgirl :  ooooh nice graphic image for the sunk cost fallacy!

Post # 11
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Sugar bee

What about when you get back together? Is he going to make another mistake? If he wanted to be with you so badly while you were apart, he wouldn’t have “mistakenly” found his way into another woman’s pants.

Post # 12
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Helper bee

I dont understand the point of being broken up but planning on getting back together ….

If you ask me, breaking up with him gave him the green light to do as he pleases.

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

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sallygg :  Let him go and move forward.    He sees you as an option, you see him as a priority.  Those two views do not mesh, and never will.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

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sallygg :  I would be running for hills if I was in your situation. 

How can he love you and then sleep with someone else like that? And then lied about it. A guy that wants to make it work and working on it with you would not, of course be doing that. He didn’t even give it a decent amount of time after you broke up! Drunk is such a bog standard excuse for: I can’t be bothered to just take the blame. He was only telling you not to get with anyone else because it looked like it was coming from experience on his side! 

Only you would be able to say whether you can honestly get past this. Trust is broken, some times it’s not able to be gotten back. You will be forever looking over your shoulder and now you know what he can do to you, why can’t things happen again? 

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