(Closed) Relationship Rules

posted 10 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
6571 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

I’ve actually used that rule with my first bf. I never count him, and it really got to the point where I forgot I dated him! I was a freshman in hs and just dated him b/c I wanted a bf, not b/c I actually liked him. And I’ve always been kind of embarrassed about that, so like I said, I just don’t count him as my ex bf.

Post # 4
1551 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Not my rule, but I have a friend who says that if she’s only had oral sex or sex with a condom, or only pull-and-pray with a guy, she doesn’t count them in her total number of sex partners, if she’s asked about that. 



Post # 6
2017 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@Neva: “Pull and Pray”? Awesome term. Adding it to repetoire. lol

Post # 7
1551 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

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@kay01:  Without being too graphic, she feels that both sex with a condom and pull-and-pray are somehow “incomplete” acts.  She thinks that the guy had to um..make a deposit…for her to have to count it.  So she can claim she has only had sex with two guys, when I know its more like (I’m guessing) eight.  But then again (as she points out), anyone who asks her such a rude question doesn’t deserve an answer anyway.

Post # 8
3637 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

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@Neva: Does she tell her future sexual partners the real number? I don’t think it’s a rude question to ask someone you are about to have sex with so that you can at least figure out whether you want to see an STD test before jumping in bed.


Warning: This post may have been a little blunt and harsh

Post # 9
81 posts
Worker bee


you have to apologize or say excuse me if you fart while we are touching (sitting on the same couch, lying in bed). If you just happen to be in the same room, you don’t have to say anything. 

you have to sit on the couch together before work for five minutes every day.

you have to double check the lock on the front door every time you leave.

Post # 10
370 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

 I really like the sitting on the couch together for five minutes every day before work rule!!

Post # 11
11324 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Um….. we don’t really have any weird rules haha. We never leave the house, come home, or go to bed without a hug and a kiss. That’s a pretty solid rule, but probably not very weird 🙂

Post # 12
1746 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

When we first started dating, I told Fiance that he couldn’t fart while we were really close to eachother more than two times a month, and there was no rollover. LOL. Luckily, he’s been pretty good about it and now it’s just a standing joke that he’s deducting from his toot bank.

I would like to keep the rule that we never pee in front of eachother in the bathroom( I just never want to be THAT comfortable). How I Met Your Mother episode on the same subject made me laugh, haha.

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