(Closed) relationship trouble

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: would you forgive a cheating man?
    yes : (4 votes)
    3 %
    no : (104 votes)
    69 %
    depends-explain : (43 votes)
    28 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1183 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    In this sitch no way, but fam, kids, etc…..I just don’t believe in “never”.

    Post # 4
    Member
    4803 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Yeah, fighting does not equal broken up and able to sleep with others. I don’t think I could forgive that, every time we fought I’d be afraid he would go sleep with some other girl!

    Post # 5
    Member
    313 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    For me, the biggest red flag is that they’ve only been together for 8 months and already living together. They couldn’t have known each other that well before they took such a big step and it’s no shocker that he stepped out when things got bad.  I’d totally drop him and take this as a life lesson — take things slow.

    Post # 8
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    10714 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I’d be gone… I will never again put up with cheating of any kind for any reason… Even if I was married even if I had children with the person it’s not worth the disgust and unhappiness you feel every time you look at them.

    Oh and… My Fiance moved in with me after a few months of dating and were still okay =)

    Post # 10
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    14486 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    In your friends case? No, not much time invested there, cut your losses short and move on.  What a sleeze, and I’m sorry, a total idiot for taking the pics and having it on his phone.  Its like he WANTED her to find it and hurt her.

    Post # 11
    Member
    1235 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Were the pics in their bed? Not only would I leave but I would be totally grossed out. How nasty, tell her to get herself tested. And what a moron for keeping those pics.

    Post # 12
    Member
    14495 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Nope, left a fiance after being together for 10 years over a similar situation.  Never looked back. 

    Post # 13
    Member
    233 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    Not under those circumstances… definitely not!  Three days and he already found someone to sleep with?  He obviously doesn’t care about the relationship at all.  If she forgives him she’s opening herself up to being cheated on again.  He isn’t going to change.

    Post # 14
    Member
    10714 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @pandaboo: Yeah my ex Fiance cheated… I tried to make it work… a week into ‘trying to make it work’ I realized I was just sick everytime I looked at him and that wasn’t going to get better. He lied once and I knew he’d lie again. His current g/f came running to me saying he cheated on her too but she stayed- she can have fun with that.

    Post # 15
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    2385 posts
    Buzzing bee

    if youre going to cheat, why take pictures of it. not smart.

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