(Closed) Relentlessly frustrated with SO's sister.

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 2
Hostess
3166 posts
Sugar bee

Unfortunately her poor decision making is not your business, no matter how frustrating it may be.  If you involve yourself, I fear you will only end up with problems with your SO’s family.  I would recommend you bite your tongue and stay out of it.

Post # 4
Member
5154 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

Miss_Lala:  I agree that this is not your business. However, please do not give her any more money. 

Post # 6
Member
11612 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Miss_Lala: is she mentally or emotionally challenged? If yes, someone needs to explain to her that her resources are for her, not for her friends. If not, I agree with PP this won’t go well for you. If her own family won’t address her, you will be the bad guy if you do. You need to bite your tongue and be glad you’re not as messed up as she is. 

Post # 8
Member
1317 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

desss:  this….

Post # 9
Member
953 posts
Busy bee

You say this is lately. So this isn’t a common thing for her.  I would leave it and wait for her to smarten up on her own and realize they are using her. As you said she is getting a second job so she obviously realizes this is a financial drain.  She is basically buying their friendship and that rarely lasts as it becomes too much. She will be busy with her second job and have less opportunity to go spending it on everyone else as well and probably be a little more tired. She is already complaining how exhausting it all is so I can only imagine it won’t last forever.

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