(Closed) remind me never to ask SIL for anything again…

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
3620 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I know it’s hard, but try to focus on the good things going on with your wedding. I’ve had my fair share of family and fil drama with the wedding planning (believe me, i can relate!) but at the end of the day, the people who love you and care about you will be happy to help, and those who have their own issues can deal with it on their own.

Post # 4
2641 posts
Sugar bee

Well sounds like Future Sister-In-Law is rather cold to her family.  So can’t support that.

However, regarding asking her to be a guestbook attendant… I kind of wonder if based on her comment, about wishing she was closer so she  could help you with the wedding, if she was disappointed about not being a Bridesmaid or Best Man, and that’s why she was taken back by the offer of guestbook.

Also, to be honest, I wouldn’t like a guest book attendant job.  That seems like a job to me.  I don’t want to work at someone’s wedding.  So if someone asked me, I’d probably turn it down too.  

Post # 5
1545 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I am so sorry she is acting like that. UGG that makes me so mad. Hello you are going to be apart of the family she needs to start acting right!

Post # 7
990 posts
Busy bee

Dont ask her to do crap…she wants to do it on her terms sounds like. Thats what my Future Sister-In-Law is like. She wanted me to ask her to be a bridesmaid, but I guess I didnt ask her fast enough because a week after she said yes, she backed out saying I asked out of pity. I made a mental note that from now on, I will keep it simple with her.

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