(Closed) Reminiscing on past weddings that I probably was not invited to

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

haha I second that one.

I have had a few weddings.. I recieved a ‘text invite’ to two of them, one I got an email asking if I was coming.. and I hadnt been given an invite.

Needless to say it was embarrassing and kind of awkward, but I went.. and the groom and bride did say that they were really glad I came after their wedding. (i was close to all three brides) i just think they expected that I was just coming and didnt need to send me an invitation

Post # 4
5823 posts
Bee Keeper

Yeah, I had a coworker getting married and didn’t find it at all odd that he had invited our entire “office” but not me.  Call me Mrs. Oblivious!  Like two weeks before the wedding he was STRESSING OUT and asked me whether I was going.  I said I didn’t realize I was invited.  He said “You never received your invite??  THAT WAS $7.50 per invititation!!  AAAAHHHHH!”  I had no idea what he was going through!  Then he somehow procured an extra one for me (magic??) and I RSVPd.  Then I wore white to the wedding.  Yeah, needless to say I was totally clueless.  Lucky for me the bride is an ANGEL and totally didn’t mind my dress (ok, it was CREAM colored, but STILL!).  I guess I made a lot of wedding kharma with that whole exchange, LOL!

Post # 5
380 posts
Helper bee

@hoosierbee – It’s never happened to me…. but…. isn’t that weird that your sister never told you about the invitation?

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