- 5 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
I have an old boyfriend that came out of the closet some years after we ended our relationship (we were teenagers…I’m in my mid 20s now). Through facebook, we have stayed in touch and messaged back and forth now and again. He recently messaged me his phone number and asked that I text him. I told him that I would love to, but I haven’t yet because I don’t want to make things awkward between my husband and myself.
I want to make it clear that my husband is NOT the jealous type at all (and obviously, this particular guy would not be interested in me now)…I’ve often been to lunch with male friends and he honestly could not have cared less. This particular ex caused some drama in the early days of our relationship….not because he wanted us to get back together, but because we had remained close friends after we ended our relationship, and I think it was hard for him when I moved on. However, he wrote me a letter apologizing and while we have never been as close as we once were, I’ve moved past it.
Do you think I should welcome him back into my life? Or keep it all on facebook?