(Closed) Renewing relationship with father before wedding

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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166 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@thefuturemrsD:  haven’t had to deal with this..but I think your plan of contacting him after you get engaged is a good one.  Maybe even word it similar to how you did here about the money part..just that you and SO don’t expect a financial contribution, but you would like to renew your relationship, etc.  You could even say something like, “I know that my mom is planning on asking you to contribute financially, but SO and I really just would love for you to be involved in the planning with no financial obligation.”  Does that make sense? lol.  Hopefully he can see that you just want to get back in touch with him and not think that it’s about anything financial.  Good luck 🙂

Post # 4
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1 posts
Wannabee
  • Wedding: July 2013

If you want to bury the hatchet do it before you get engaged. If you wait until after you are engaged then you might face questions about money. The best advice I can give you is to be honest and upfront about the whole situation. Good Luck!

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