(Closed) Replacing my MOH

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
359 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@MissBabeski: a lot of ladies on weddingbee have come up with some pretty special ways to ask their Maid/Matron of Honor & BMS…so I’m sure you can find plenty of fun ideas if you look (everything from creative cards, surprise gifts, special activities, etc).

As far as how to express to her that she isnt second best? I tend to be really open and honest with my friends, so if it was me, I would basically tell her what you wrote in the second paragraph…

that you felt obligated to ask the ex-MOH because you knew her longer, her parents are your godparents and that you felt obligated. So now that the ex-MOH has shown her true colors, you’re asking the friend who should have been Maid/Matron of Honor all along and who is a true friend to you.

I think expressing that will be very meaningful to your friend and will ensure she doesn’t feel like “second-choice.” 

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