Post # 31
loudsilence99: We have discussed this and have decided that once invites are out, for those who do not respond by the deadline date, we will make 1 phone call. If we speak with them, we will ask if they are coming. If they request to call use back, or we leave a message, we will wait 24 hours for a response. If we do not hear from them within that timeframe, we will put them down as a no and move on.
Post # 32
So here is the funny thing about what time does… it is now almost two months post wedding and when I saw the replies in my inbox, I was kind of like “oh yeah… RSVPs… that was a thing I was stressed about…”
Yes, it was obnoxious. More annoying than the lack of certain RSVPs were the no-shows to the reception. We paid for people to not come which was more annoying than the lack of RSVPs.
Honestly though? Two months later I’m kind like “eh. that was annoying wasn’t it? Oh well.”