(Closed) response envelope address

posted 11 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Who would you address the response cards to?

    myself

    my last name-his last name wedding

    my parents

    other (please explain)

  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    How about to you and him?

    Post # 4
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I had our response card addressed to “The Future Mr & Mrs Smith” and then I put my address Laughing

    Post # 5
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: February 2011

    I have the return address as “MyFirst and His First” with no last names. 🙂

    Post # 7
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    @airythia: nah – because it’s a response to you about your wedding, so it makes sense you’d do it together even if you don’t live together! that’s my opinion anyway 🙂

    Post # 8
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    ours are listed as ‘my last-his last’, but we live together.

    Post # 9
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: January 2011

    We just did my name & his name at our address, but i think if you used your address in lieu of, that would be fine – just guessing, no formal ettiquette info here!

    Even if we lived apart, I think I would have done it this way too, so they know he’s included  and I’d make sure to get the RSVP’s (control freak! lol)

    FH’s sister recently got married, her and her DH lived separately and their RSVP’s were addresses to his house with his name only. 

    Good luck!

    Post # 9
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    i’m doing “my first and his first” because we live together (but the future mr. and mrs. is so cute!) if we lived separately, i’d probably just put my name. maybe to “the future mrs. his last name”?

    Post # 10
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    Honey bee

    Would it help make it more clear if you were not living with your parents.  Meaning, what would you be inclined to do if that were the case.  If you would have them sent to you, then use your name (first and last) but if you would have them going to your parents place, I’d put Mr & Mrs Smith.

     

    Post # 11
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    we did just our address, since we live togehter and i didnt want to offend any of my super religous grandparents or aunts.  technically it should be sent to whos hosting hte events, but i had them sent to us rather than my paretns since i was the one tracking them and giving our list to the calligrapher.

    Post # 12
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    I actually just had them addressed to me…Teddy still technically lives in his own house…and my family is pretty conservative and so is his…so if both of our names were together with the same address we would raise some eyebrows! I also want to be the one who receives them because I will be so excited to get them in the mail 🙂 and since Teddy is here all the time anyways we will get them together!

    Post # 13
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    We were already living together, and like CorgiTales, we did MyFirst & HisFirst, no last name.

    Post # 14
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I did the same thing as Jackie-O. The Future Mr & Mrs. blahblah and then put our address.

    Post # 15
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Even though my parents are paying/hosting I still addressed them to me.  I’m going to be doing the seating chart and I have everything organized at my house so I figured it would be easier for me to receive them.

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