(Closed) Return address on invitations–me or me and FI??

posted 8 years ago in Paper
Post # 3
4765 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2011 - Vintage Villas

We’ll put return addresses with both of our names, even though we technically don’t live together yet.

Post # 4
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I think either way would be fine.

Post # 5
2208 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I’ve struggled with this. We own a house together, and it isn’t a giant secret that we are living in sin (as some in my family would say), but I’m not sure I want to broadcast that to every single person, inlcuding the never going to come, but get a courtesy invite people (the great aunts and other very old relatives). So, I’m just addressing them to myself. I’ll have both of our names on the thank yous, so most people will know we didn’t move.

Post # 6
2475 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

We are in the same situation.  Our return labels just had my FI’s last name on them, not a first name.  I figured that was the best solution, especially since I will be eventually taking his last name anyway.

Post # 7
523 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I used both of our names for the return address on my S-T-Ds. For the RSVP envelopes I’ll use our last names:

My last name /His last name Wedding


City, state, 00000

Post # 8
368 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

We just put our first names on the return envelope. “Evan and Nicole” and then our address.

Post # 9
137 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

We put our first names and address. 

Post # 10
6572 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

we used both our names. but we stupidly put last names too, and had a few left over after the wedding. not my name anymore. so i would just put first names.

Post # 11
1148 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

I think it’s up to you. I hadn’t really thought about it, but I think I’ll just be doing both of our names if not our last name (soon to be mine) on it.

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