Member- militarywife
- 9 years ago
- Wedding: September 2009
I am confused as to what to do with the return address on my RSVP card envelopes. Since I am in the process of moving, and my parents are hosting, I just assumed the best option would be to have them sent to my parents address. I have a bit of a problem though. I would really, really like to leave my RSVP cards blank, except for the "the favour of a reply is requested by the ____", so that people can write whatever they would like to us. It is a very small wedding (70 max) and we know everyone well, so I thought it would be fun to have people write thier responses (some of my friends may draw crazy pictures, family friends might write notes I can keep to remember the occasion by). Do you think people will be confused, and/or limited in thier responses if I have the RSVP cards addressed to my parents? I mean, I could still use their address since we are moving, but should I maybe have the name on them be mine/my finaces/both of us instead of my parents??? I know etiquette dictates that thier names should be on the reply card address, but I am not sure if this is the best thing to do in my case. Also, as a side note, does anyone know the proper way to say both my parents are hosting on the wedding invite (they are both doctors)? is it doctor written out? whose name goes first? Thanks everyone!!!!
