(Closed) Returning the favour??

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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1697 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@Jayney:she bumped a bm for you? Did I read that right? She had 4 and had to bump one for you to be in it? oh man that’s rough!

Post # 4
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516 posts
Busy bee

I guess it depends on why you didn’t want her . . . Was it because you already have too long a list of potential BMs?  Or because you aren’t that close to her?  Or because you don’t think she’ll make a good BM?

In any of the above situations, I wouldn’t ask her.  You don’t have to, although it might cause a bit of friction.

As an alternative (that I wouldn’t dare claim as my original idea- I see it on WB all the time, lol), could you ask her to do something alternative?  Like doing a reading, or being a hostess?

Post # 6
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2288 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

If you really want her as a Bridesmaid or Best Man, don’t worry about uneven sides. Mine were, and it looked just fine. If you’re not comfortable asking her or if the only reason to ask her is because she asked you, don’t.

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