(Closed) Reunion same day as wedding and causing problems

posted 6 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
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9056 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Are you having a day time wedding?  If you’re doing say, a brunch or something and I was your Maid/Matron of Honor I would probably assume that after the wedding you wanted some “alone time” and it would be ok to move on to the reunion if both were local.  But, I’d probably ask if there was anything further related to the wedding to do that day before I made plans that I couldn’t get out of.

Post # 5
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1512 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I would be pissed that she hadn’t even mentioned anything. If she’s helping plan it, maybe ask her if they can do it the next weekend. Explain to her that you really wanted her to stay at your wedding the whole time, and hopefully she would understand. Good luck!

Post # 6
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9056 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

@mrsnjemanze2b:  Ok, so what, she’s thinking she’ll attend the ceremony and then skip the reception?  That is not cool in my books, and I would definitely talk to her about it. 

Post # 7
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887 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I’d get ahold of your Maid/Matron of Honor ASAP. Sometimes things get miscommunicated, and maybe her mom misunderstood or maybe your Maid/Matron of Honor completely spaced it that the two dates are the same. Just give her a call and save yourself the stress!

Post # 8
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7693 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I don’t know who you contacted, but if possible I’d get in direct touch with the head planner or planning committee of the reunion because they don’t have deposits down yet.  I would also speak with your Maid/Matron of Honor.  Best wishes. 

Post # 9
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3569 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

hmm I say talk to moh first, even though it’s from her mom sounds like second hand info, why wouls he be getting a dress made if she didn’t plan on being there. She might just leave your wedding al ittle early and go to the reunion.

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