(Closed) Rim Jobs

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
4656 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

As long as his hygeine is up to par, I’m sure you both would have a good time with you returning the favor. How into it (as it were) you want to get is up to you two. 

Whenever you go there, there are risks, but they’re mostly very minimal (again, provided proper washing is observed) and I wouldn’t get them get in the way of some fun for sure. 

As for me, I’m pretty freaky, my list of “stuff I won’t even try” is EXTREMELY short… but that is on it. (Not because of any risk, I just don’t wanna haha) Fortunately all my no-go things are on FH’s list too, and then some. (I’m definitely into weirder stuff than he is haha.)

I’ll do anything for love, but I won’t do that. ;-D 

Post # 4
5 posts

Quite honestly I’m into just doing it to the girl to see her reaction.  Or at least I apply pressure with my finger in that area on her.  The most that’s ever been done to me in that area is having the women sort of graze her finger over the area just barely.  Nothing more than that.

Post # 5
951 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

My husband and I have been known to rim each other after a shower sometimes. We see it as a bit of light-hearted kink. He actually admitted that it feels quite good. There are a lot of nerves in that area. When we first started dating, I was the much kinkier one but I’ve been bringing out his inner freak.


But if you’re not comfortable with it, don’t do it.


Post # 6
9181 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

We do a lot of different things, including in that general area, but for me something about buttholes and tongues just don’t mix! 

But if he did for you, it’s only fair to give it a try… Just make sure he’s freshly showered.

Post # 7
12247 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

I once dated a guy who could ONLY get off if I did that. As long as he showers first (every time. Seriously. EVERY. TIME.), you won’t even realize what you’re doing. It’s n big, and easier than giving head!

Also, if he’s hairy… He’s going to want to trim that. Just sayin…

Post # 8
495 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Obviously the best time to give or recieve a rim job is after a shower/bath. Its the only time I allow it and the only I give it. I love it and he loves it. We also do anal on occasson but thats a whole other thing. Hes obviously interested in his bum being played with so, next time you are giving him a blowjob, rim him and then get it really slobbery and then stick the tip of your finger in there while sucking him…. I know, its Too Much Information but its the best thing ever. I wish more men were open to bum play, they would realize why gay men actually enjoy sex…. lol

Post # 9
2419 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I feel like I’m pretty open to try just about anything, but that is one thing that is on my no no list. I’ve just started opening up to the idea of anal recently. But I do not want his tongue or my tongue anywhere near there.

I would suggest that you make sure you try it right after a shower.

Post # 10
20 posts
  • Wedding: August 2015

@brid32bee:  ok.. tmi but you asked… my bf did it to me and i didnt care for it… partly because i was so self conscious. he wanted me to try it to him… like you i am adventurous. he scrubbed and shaved back there and he loved it. as long as its clean its really erotic. but seriously… it has to be a sparkling clean area to enjoy it. use your finger too…. awesome reviews!!!!!

Post # 11
9117 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

As long as you’re both clean, why not?

Not something I’m interested in, but definitely to each their own.

Post # 12
4582 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’ve done it for Darling Husband on occasion, after a shower. He really enjoys it and it doesn’t weird me out too much if he’s clean.

Post # 13
2359 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: County courthouse

I have never had this done to me or done it to anyone else. A few yrs ago my hobby and i tried anal…but it was horrible. it felt like i was taking a hard constipated poop…backwards. never again.

Post # 14
180 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

Go for it! Make sure he’s nice and clean – have fun and enjoy exploring each other!

Post # 15
1749 posts
Bumble bee

@brid32bee:  I’ve had it done to me but I have never done it. It’s not my thing.

Post # 16
4657 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

i think it weirds my husband out more than me. i would totally do it for him if he wanted, but he is a kind of ‘stay away from my back door’ kinda guy.

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