(Closed) Ring bearer alternatives?

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 5
46612 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@frommisstomrs.:  Is there a reason you need 2-3 flower girls? Or are you just afraid of offending someone by not including their child?

Even if you have 3 flower girls, I don’t think it means you must have a ring bearer. Often the best man has the real ring anyhow.

Post # 6
9954 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Etiquette Snob here… lol

Child Attendants (actaully ALL Attendants) are optional.

Best Man could hold ALL the rings… or Bridesmaid or Best Man yours, and Maid/Matron of Honor the Grooms.

Choice is up to you.

Hope this helps,

PS… Nah, I don’t think it will look “odd” to have a bunch of cute little girls and no boys.  Girls will be adorable no matter what.


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