- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
Ladies, I am having a hard time trying to decide if I should have a ring bearer or ring bearers or not and whom I should choose. Sorry if this is long.
I am having two flower girls, both of our god daughters who will be four at the time of the wedding. I have two friends with sons, they will be 19 and 29 months and my fiancé has a second cousin who will be six 1/2 then. I know 19 months and 29 months seems young but I’ve had friends who had a 17 month old at their wedding.
My concerns are that my friends won’t have any time to enjoy themselves if they have their son there to chase and etc; but also won’t want to stay long and will miss him if he is not part of the wedding, so they can get home to their sons. Plus, can I choose between friends and their sons? I am closer to one than the other. This is why I have not made a decision yet.
Also, my fiance’s aunt has offered a family ring pillow to us that was made and first used by her mother in law. I love the idea of using it. It is her grandson that is my fiance’s six 1/2 old second cousin.
Or is there a way I can still use the pillow with no ring bearer?
I would appreciate your opinions and advice. Thank You!