(Closed) Ring Bearer Tux – who pays?

posted 8 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: Who pays for the ring bearers tux?
    Me : (3 votes)
    10 %
    His mom : (27 votes)
    90 %
  • Post # 3
    1897 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    I don’t have a Ring Bearer, but I am under the impression that the parents pay.

    Post # 4
    202 posts
    Helper bee

    I would think that the parents pay, just as your bridesmaids and groomsmen do.

    Post # 5
    2634 posts
    Sugar bee

    I think traditionally his parents are supposed to pay, but in my case, I’m buying the Ring Bearer outfit and the Flower Girl dress.

    Post # 6
    1051 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Oh man – you mean I can ask my brother’s ex to pay for my nephew’s tux??  She’s the mom!  =)

    Since the Ring Bearer tux was to cost the same as the Groomsmen tuxes, we’re just forgoing the entire thing.  My brother and his gf are both already in the wedding party and paying for their attire, I didn’t want them to have to shell out another $150.  My nephew is just going to wear black pants, and we’re going to buy him little suspenders that coordinate with the GMs. 

    Post # 8
    831 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    My RB’s parents are buying his.

    Post # 10
    2634 posts
    Sugar bee

    Would you consider something like this for your RB?  It isn’t nearly as expensive and it’s so cute (at least IMO!).


    Post # 12
    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I think it is standard that his mom pays.  Just ask her- tell her you are fine with his Sunday Best, or she can pay for the tux, let her choose.

    Post # 13
    14495 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I bought our Ring Bearer a cute little tux at walmart for $15, but he is only three.  I can’t see putting that kind of money into a full blown tux when the likelyhood of them ruining it is pretty high, kids are kids.

    Post # 14
    36 posts
    • Wedding: April 2001

    hello I just saw your post the wedding is right around the corner,  PLEASE try looking on Craigslist in your area and Ebay!!!  My son has been a ring bearer twice, we have a gently used childrens shop right near home and we got the suit jacket pants vest and shirt for $30!!!! help a mom out.

    Post # 15
    4485 posts
    Honey bee

    The boy’s parents pay for it

    Post # 16
    5154 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I think traditionally the parents of the Ring Bearer and Flower Girl pay…but I decided to pay for my flower girls dress, but that was a personal choice. Are you comfortable asking them to pay? Do you think they would offer to reimburse you if you bought it?

    Good luck!

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