- 10 years ago
Thank you again for some of the later responses I missed 🙂
Since posting I have indeed been to try on rings and I am more certain than ever that my 2nd choice is my dream ring (even though, as I said before, the original would still be INCREDIBLE and it’s not all about the ring, but about the fact that I would be getting married to my amazing man).
Things have also moved on even more between me and BF! We were in the mall about a week ago and we walked past a jewelry store. I jokingly pushed him a little bit towards the display and to my surprise he laughed and walked right into the store with me!! We looked at some of the rings (just through the glass – I went later to try them on by myself hehe) and we talked about which ring he would have gotten me if I had never given him any direction. I was very very happy about how relaxed he was having the conversation! On the way home I decided to push my luck a little by continuing the conversation… and asked him what he thought was a good ring budget (I asked in a general way, not specific to us) and then finally got up the nerve to ask if he would be happy with me choosing my own ring… and he said YES!! I”m so so happy… it won’t be happening for a little while because we are about to move but I am so relaxed about everything now. And of course this means my ‘ring dilema’ is over. Thanks again bees!