Well I’m back again. I left it for a while as wanted to feel a little ‘stronger;’ after getting some angry comments. Like I said, I can understand and appreciate them.
I also want to say thanks to the amazing amount of open minded, very friendly and thoughtful ladies on here, who took the time to write back with your thoughts and advice, everyone I appreciate.
hilsy85 thanks to you: you make some very well made points!! I can see you as a very elegant, vintage style lady, is this right?!Jayve love the ring porn suggestion, Ill try and figure out how to post photos and do that! @katNYC2011thanks for taking the time to read my posts and it seems you really get what I was trying to say,thanks!
Dolcebella, thanks for sharing another Tiffany ring story and advice. And what you say is so true As I said and yes this all sounds Me Me ME I know, but I have always had such a stupid sense of only acting/living/being through other peoples eyes and how they see ME which stops me from appreciating the many amazing things, people and situations that surround me. I wish I could shake it. Its such an issue it causes a lot of arguments with my fiancée, mainly caused by my issues so I’m hoping to start some counselling- joint and separate before the big day next year to shake this even a tiny bit!!!
I am sorry people felt I was being vulgar and disrespectful by what they saw as showing off about price and Tiffany etc, I just thought that would put how I feel in perspective, but maybe not…
I tried the brilliant method of cleaning my ring with the toothbrush at the weekend and wow does it work!! The sparkle makes my day after I do it!
I go on some British forums and the reaction there is at least twice as ‘harsh’ than on here, you US ladies are far friendlier, and constructive so thanks for that!
I wanted to post back again and let you know I’m reading and apreciate the comments so far, would love to thank s few later posts by name too.
Please keep any thoughts/advice/experiences coming still!