(Closed) Ring regret and I don't even have it yet!!??!

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
1471 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

It’s ultim up to you bee. I prefer the white gold over any other gold but you’re the one wearing it. I think in the end, no matter which one you decide on you will love. 

Post # 3
99 posts
Worker bee

I love the last rose gold one too. If it’s at the same store, is the deposit transferable? There’s no harm in looking at it, and you might regret it later if you don’t see it to make sure.  

Post # 4
256 posts
Helper bee

I like the first one but just because I’m partial to scalloped bands. The one you’ve chosen is lovely too. Rose gold is beautiful but white gold is too. If you want the rose gold then have the store bring it in to see. I’m sure since payments are still being made, they wouldn’t mind transferring them to a different ring.

Post # 5
10 posts

I think the white really looks pretty on your skin. It pops.  At the same time, you are not asking too much to want to see another ring just to be sure. 

Post # 6
472 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

I really like the last ring. Like pp said can the money your Fiance has put down be transferred to the other ring?  That’s a very big purchase to not be 100%. I would at least take a look at it to be sure you get exactly what you want.

Post # 8
4843 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

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jubiebee:  I like all of them but I would stick with the white gold. White and yellow gold just seem more timeless than rose gold. I also think white metals suit your skin tone better. I love rose gold but it is a metal I would only consider it for a RHR because I know me well enough to know I may not like it in 10 years.


At the end of the day though…only you can make this choice so do whatever makes you happy and wear whatever makes your heart sing!!  they are all gorgeous rings!



Post # 9
493 posts
Helper bee

I actually think you and your Fiance picked the perfect ring for you. The white gold looks great on you and truly is a beautiful ring set. Try not to second guess yourself with your decision. It’s a wonderful choice.

Post # 10
1758 posts
Buzzing bee

I think you really need to ask yourself “What am I comfortable wearing EVERY DAY for the rest of my life?” I rarely see women who have been married more than a couple years wearing their engagement ring with their wedding bands. It’s such a waste of money in my opinion, why do those beautiful rings sit in the jewelry box?! Please pick a ring you love and can see yourself easily wearing and living in.

Post # 11
834 posts
Busy bee

which one does your Fiance like best? 

I do prefer the white gold on your skin tone and I may be bias because I have white gold myself, its my favourite. I also love the rose gold in the first picture, not so much in the 3rd. 

Do what I do what I cant figure out what my heart wants – write it on a small paper, one option per small paper, toss them around, close your eyes and pick one. If you are happy with it – go with it, if you are disappointed, then you’ll know what you really want.


Post # 12
1856 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

I like the one you picked the best! I think the white gold suits your skin tone best xx

Post # 13
689 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I really like the WG one. It looks perfect on your finger, and the color compliments your skin more than the color of RG 

Post # 14
402 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

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jubiebee:  theyou are all beautiful but you have to remember that ring styles and gold trends change over time so what uly like may change to suit the current style. Some people like to upgrade their wedding ring or engagement ring to current trends every decade or sooner and others wouldn’t dare touch their ring as it is sentiment over style. Decide which person you are there’s no right answer. This may help with ring choice

Post # 15
2115 posts
Buzzing bee

My favourite in order are 1, 3 and 2. I think the rose gold looks beautiful on your skin tone and really makes the centre stone pop. 

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