(Closed) Ring Selection Worries

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
1296 posts
Bumble bee

I suggest you guys calmy sit down together and disscuss what you like in a ring. I just find being straight forward the best policy.  You may want to add that you don’t want to take away the ring selection from him you just what to give him your preference.  I know what you mean about you having to wear it for the rest of your life.  I think sometimes guys don’t get that part but who knows maybe your SO will.  I know when the time comes I’ll talk to my SO about it.   I’m not really much of a jewelry person but with that being said I am very picky about the jewelry I do wear.

Post # 4
Member
7587 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

You say that you want it to be a surprise and then at the same time you are saying that you want it to be something you have picked out.  My suggestion would be that you decide which one of those things you really want and live with it. A) Let it be a surprise and stop worrying about what it will look like and vow ahead of time to love it because of what it symbolizes. B) Talk to him and tell him: “I want one just like this or I will be disappointed”

Post # 5
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14186 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Instead of beating around the bush, you need to talk to him about it. Instead of getting your sister involved, you could always go shopping with him, point out things you like, things you don’t like, and leave the ultimate decision up to him. I think bringing an extra person into the mix could just make it a little more messy. And maybe he doesn’t want your sister’s opinion, you know? It’s such a personal thing to buy.

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