Ring Troubles, I hate it and it lead to a uncertain engagement

posted 2 years ago in Engagement
Post # 31
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2477 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

I would be bothered by the fact that it wasnt your style. While a ring may be a trivial thing, the bigger meaning behind it is the fact that YOU have to wear it for the rest of your life on YOUR finger. If you were demanding some outlandish ring and gave him clear expectations of “I’m not marrying you unless said ring is x amont of money, carats, etc and you have no other option,” then I would just be bothered that he did exactly what you didn’t want and expects you to be happy with it. My SO knew exactly what I wanted and I never demanded it we just browsed together and I showed him what I liked. If he would have given me something completely not my taste it would be hard for me to connect because I would feel like if you could get this, then why couldn’t you get what I liked? But as other PP said, you don’t seem thrilled ti be marrying him besides the ring. 

Post # 32
Member
52 posts
Worker bee

If you are involved in the business, have your own lawyers review all contracts, find an exit from the business so that you do not lose a penny.  And exit from this guy.

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