(Closed) Ringbear Question

posted 8 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
2397 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

You can definitely have a girl ring bearer!  Also, typically the ring bearer just carries the pillow for looks, the best man usually holds the rings.  That way, you don’t have to worry about her/him losing it.

Post # 4
2859 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

I think that’s a cute idea. I don’t know why your sister got upset about it.

My opinion is that nothing HAS to be a anything. It’s your wedding, do what you want!

Post # 5
436 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

My 2 year old niece was a bellringer but I’ve also heard where children walk down the aisle and blow bubbles.  If you want them included, anything would be cute.

Post # 6
7152 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

The ringebearer can be a girl, dog, cat, grown man. It’s whatever you want it to be

Post # 7
2196 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

We have TONS of little girls in our family and NO little boys, so we’re having the two oldest girls (7&8 by our wedding) be ringbearers.  I think it’ll be super-cute!

Post # 8
1336 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Go for it.

Post # 10
31 posts
  • Wedding: October 2010

I think you should have anyone that is special to you be the ringbearer!! I don’t know or have any younger boys to ask so I was thinking on asking my “little brother”, he just happens to be 36 years old.  I’ve been contemplating on whether to ask him or not because I don’t want him to be offended at what should be the “job” for a kid.  I’m definitely not one to follow etiquette or have to do what others believe to be the correct way of doing things.  Maybe call him ring holder or holder of the rings instead?     

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